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If You Give a Blogger Some Ambien…

If you give a blogger some ambien and set her loose on Etsy, she will find a pretty font she likes.

The font will remind her she really needs to do her signature.

Which will lead her to spend $15 on a premade logo.

The premade logo will remind her how much she likes brights colors.

She will begin to realize she made a mistake creating such a bland personal website.

Then she will decide to redo it because all her boys are sick and there is a big snow storm coming.

When she puts the pretty logo on the new site, she is inspired to do something different.

Which leads her to another night of graphics shopping.

Now, sleep deprived, she decides to completely redesign the site.

Happy with what she is seeing, she realizes she needs new business cards.

She decided to buy a bunch of other branded crap she doesn’t need while she was sucked into the Vista Print sales.

Then she remembered that in order to really re-brand she would have to create a new timeline template and twitter background.

Which sent her template shopping.

While she was there she realized her slider frames suck.

So she bought some more.

And you know, when a digital mom buys a new graphic, she might as well give up the ambien…..

Click through to see what I have been up to...

 

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Tips For Making #Blissdom Blissful

I'm a Blissdom Community Leader!In a few short weeks women from all over the Blogosphere will descend on Nashville, TN for the 4th annual Blissdom Conference. I’ve had a long and storied history with this conference in that every year I have planned to attend, and every year I have had to cancel. Last year, literally the day before. Being a mom always comes ahead of getting your #bliss on, right?

This year, I planned to attend because it is a perfect fit for The Organized Cook which I became a partner of last year. Super excited to have a chance to finally attend, I will be there as a Travel niche Community Leader.

Which leads me to my post today…

While I will be new to Blissdom I am certainly not new to travel or blog conferences. And when I travel alone, I tend to leave my brain at home. I am super organized when my family travels, but when it is just me, my chaos flag totally fly’s!

SO, here are some tips to avoid some of the situations that have either happened to me, or an unfortunate blogging friend as you get ready for #blissdom!

  • Stop worrying about what you are going to wear. No one is going to care. I promise. They are more worried about if they look OK. Worry instead about your luggage! All the outfit planning in the world isn’t going to help if your bags get lost. My suggestion is to bring a carry on with a foldable travel bag inside, preferably a cheap duffel type. Something like this is perfect. You want all your clothes in a carry on heading there. Ask Carissa Rogers about how she ended up at Blissdom last year with nothing but pj’s she got from my house in Denver. That foldable bag is going to come in handy for bringing home any SWAG you collect. Even if you have to pay a baggage fee for it on the way home, it may be cheaper than shipping the stuff home.
  • Take a picture of your drivers license if you don’t have a passport. If you do have a passport leave it in a safe place at home! One unlucky Snowmama last year (cough, @luxurytravelmom) lost her license on ski lift, leaving her to figure out what the process is to travel home without identification. Hint: it is possible, but it makes it a whole lot easier to have someone at home able to fax a copy of your identification to TSA.
  • Get your travel documents on your phone! In addition to having several essential travel apps I carry all my reservations in the clouds. I take screen shots of all of my travel arrangements and store them in My Docs on the Apple cloud. Emailing them to yourself via gmail would accomplish the same thing. Basically, you want to be able to show that front desk person that indeed you do have a room reservation even though the confirmation number isn’t in their system. If you really aren’t tech savvy, print them out and carry them with you.
  • Get cell phone numbers of people you want to meet up with. I have AT&T, which means my reception can be very spotty at conferences. Texts seem to make it through better. This is also a good time to plug promising your family texts over calls. Often times you get so busy at a conference that you realize you completely missed that after school check in call you were going to make to the kids. When my kids were younger, I would take a picture of some cool things on the Expo floor that I couldn’t wait to share with them when I got home.
  • Make sure you tuck a few of your own business cards behind your badge. You never know who you are going to meet in the elevator! I always bring a mini sharpie and attach it to my badge as well. I am sure you know the tip of writing a quick note on someones card you meet so you can remember who the heck they were a week after Blissdom when you have 200 of them in front of you. Believe it or not some people (me) still print their cards in glossy and a sharpie is the best thing to write on those.

Hopefully the above tips will help make your trip a bit more Blissful. If you need more, Traveling Mom will keep you busy for hours. See you in Nashville!

 

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Our Family is Expanding By One More Bronco’s Fan

Please welcome the latest addition to our family. Weighing in at 12 pounds 5 oz he is one big baby. We are overjoyed with our new arrival but my slippers aren’t.

basset hound puppy in broncos jersey

Floyd joined our family last week. He was a rescue puppy adopted from Humane Society of Boulder and was brought to Boulder as part of the PetSmart Charities® Rescue Waggin’® program. Both organizations deserve some ‘crazy mad props’ for getting our little guy to his forever home. So impressed with the work they do!

If you would like to be inundated with cute pictures of our puppy, click the big like button below to get to my new facebook page.

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How Do We Help Our Kids Make Good Choices (and is it our responsibility when they dont?)

Last year I wrote a hard post about my biological father being homeless. It is interesting how many people I surprised. I think we often forget when we meet people as adults in surburbia PTA that people have stories behind them. I think we are so quick to form someone whole identity from seeing them in their mini-van driving,  middle class living life that how they got there never is asked.

Today I am asking it because of a conversation on my facebook wall. It was prompted by the sharing of this link by someone I really respect:

(Source: CNN/WANE)

(Source: CNN/WANE)

I started to wonder how the kid got to this stage? Forget what you think of the sign and ask what the backstory is here? Is this the moms first attempt at ‘fixing’ the problem herself?  What makes a kid at 14 start selling drugs? Where is the parental responsibilty in that? It was suggested that I had a black and white thinking that bad kids are a result of bad parenting. I actually don’t think that. The truth is I don’t believe there are ‘bad kids’. I believe there are kids (and parents) that make “bad” choices, even long spiraling series of choices in some cases. It was suggested it was easier to make bad choices when you grow up poor. But I don’t really think that is the case either. I know kids from really wealthy families that have made some really bad choices and I know kids from really poor neighborhoods that make bad choices.I would say it is pretty equal in my life’s experience.

I grew up POOR. We lived in a house with a duplex in front on 17th Ave & Van Buren. If you know the Phoenix area, your jaw probably just dropped. It is ‘the hood’. Then we moved to the much better neighborhood of Central and Indian School (yeah, not really) When I didn’t go into the restaurant at 5 in the morning, I rode the city bus into school that picked up and dropped off in front of the liquor store (starting when I was 7, alone).  Then in highschool my life completely changed. Yes, I still lived in the not so great part of town. But I went to a private all girls Catholic school. And guess what? Some of those ‘rich girls’ were more ‘messed up’ then the kids from my block. Some of their parents were more absent than if they had been working 60 hour weeks.

I am ALL up in my kids business. To the point you could (and they do) call me a stalker. So do their friends. My kids friends parents know if they want to know what is going on, I am the one to ask. I have outed more kids and more plans than they care to admit. And honestly, I hope they will thank me for it someday. Other parents ask how I know some of the stuff. I can only say its cause I listen. For whatever reason I have always been that mom kids talk to. Am I naive enough to think I know EVERYTHING? Nope. Nor do I want to. But I can truly tell you my kids have no opportunity to be selling drugs to anyone. They just don’t have the time or the opportunity.

I didn’t either. Even though I had a lot of freedom being a ‘latchkey’ kid. My parents always knew what I was up to. They knew who the neighborhood kids were and they knew who they didn’t want me running with. They also kept me very, very busy with sports and extra curricular activities. Yeah, remember those computer classes I took during the summer or 350 days a year of swimming? I think that is difference. Drug problems (selling and use) are an issue with wealthy kids because there is very easy access to both pills and money. Drug problems are also an issue among poor kids. I personally think parental and community  involvement is the big key in helping kids make better decisions.

I am a big believer that it takes a village to raise a child. I can’t tell you how thankful I am to have other parents and coaches in my kids lives that serve as another pair of eyes, another set of ears, another shoulder for them. I can’t be there all the time-even as a professional teen stalker :)

But I am truly asking as a conversation starter, what do you think makes that difference in the choices kids make? We all know that family who in our eyes did ‘everything right’ and had a kid who made some very bad choices. What made the difference for you? How did you get to your current life spot? How are you helping your kids not get to the spot this sign wearing teen is in? Is it luck, money, parental involvement? and honestly, at 14 do you think that wearing this sign is going to do anything or is it more a way for the mom to feel she is doing all she can?

 

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8 Lessons Learned Volunteering At Food Bank

reclaimation area food bank of the rockies

Reclamation area at Food Bank of the Rockies

I’ve spent the last couple of afternoons working at The Food Bank of the Rockies in what is known as the Reclamation Area. This is the main area that donated food gets processed and sorted. I have learned a lot these past few days and wanted to pass it on in hopes that what I have seen helps you as you prepare to donate to food drives.

On the 1st day we processed foods that were donated from area stores that had been pulled from their shelves for one reason or another. This food had been stored for some time and it all needed to be wiped down with bleach and sorted into 40 lb boxes by its type. I was shocked when I got there and was handed an apron and gloves to protect myself from the bleach. I couldn’t fathom why on earth we were wiping food with a chemical. Then I opened my first box. The bottom was full of rodent poop. OK, I can see why now. Cans, bags & boxes were all given a bleach wipe before heading to the sorting area.

Lesson 1: Don’t Donate Dented Cans OR Overly Expired Food

I literally, personally had to throw away over 3 huge trash cans, each weighing more than 350 lbs, of dented and expired cans. What broke my heart more was all of the expired baby food. What I did learn though was that you can donate expired canned goods up to 6 months from the date on the product. Just make sure it isn’t dented. A minor dent is OK but anything near a seam or a sharp dent will have to be tossed. Baby food that is even one day expired or in a glass container won’t make it through reclamation either. Neither will anything open. A box that has an inner lining still in tact-think a cereal box with the plastic bag inside- is OK but if the bag is open, its trashed.

Acceptable dates for expired food donated to Food Bank of the Rockies

Acceptable dates for expired food donated to Food Bank of the Rockies

Lesson 2: Companies Donate A LOT of Soda and Junk Food

soda donation at food bank of the rockies

Soda donation at food bank of the rockies. Photo Credit to Kia Ru

On a trip here last year with some bloggers we saw pallets and pallets of Sun Drop soda. All of us were taken aback. Apparently, that is par for the course. During my volunteer time I processed more 2 liters of various types of pop than I knew existed. Coming in a close second were Pop Tarts. I am certainly not a health food fanatic but I think everyone agrees that they wouldn’t want to open a food box full of only that to feed their family. I wouldn’t.

Lesson 3: Variety is Nice

exciting items for food box

Real treasures found among the donated food

On Day 2 I packed boxes for individuals. These are 40 lbs boxes donated directly to people in need. Knowing these mostly go to households, volunteers try to pack a variety of foods in the boxes. It’s hard to make a variety out of ramen noodles and creamed corn! Volunteers would search through boxes and boxes to put together things that made sense-pasta with pasta sauce and so on. Finding canned proteins, like tuna and chicken was a nice surprise and something divided up carefully. When donating, be a little creative.

 

Lesson 4: Donate Your Teens

There are a lot of sweet, elderly, regular volunteers that sort food. Send in your teen to do some lifting. They need strong people to keep the conveyer belts filled and the trash cans empty. Kids have to be 14 to volunteer at Food Bank of the Rockies. They have to be 16 to be there unsupervised.

Lesson 5: Think About Going With Them

I am not going to lie, the first day when we pulled up and saw a large teen group escorted by 3 sheriffs I was a little worried. The next day the sheriffs were escorting a group of adults.  There is a large diversity among the people who volunteer. Obviously one of the reasons to volunteer with your kids is to expose them to different views of the world. We had a great experience working with all of the volunteers here.

Lesson 6: Know What You Are Comfortable With

Working at the Food Bank is physically demanding. While there are different areas and stations for people of different ability levels, there is no getting around some amount of lifting. They do need people to sit and re-tape boxes and such but those are few and far between. I’m sore. Really sore after 3 days.

Lesson 7: Companies Donate A Lot of Frozen Food

Donated Meat Re-Purposed for Zoo Animals

Donated Meat Re-Purposed for Zoo Animals

I was pretty discouraged Day 1 at all the packaged and processed food donated. But on Day 3 we processed a large amount of frozen food from places like Sams Club. I was pleased to see all the meat, cheese and some freezable dairy. What I was really bothered by is that the meat that is deemed not fit for human consumption is sent to the Zoo. I am guessing this is where the open grain bags go as well. In talking with people about this I guess it isn’t an issue for wild animals and the zoo knows how to process it safely for them. I don’t know though, I wouldn’t feed my dog meat I wouldn’t eat so this sat funny with me.

Lesson 8: JUST GIVE MONEY

I have said this before and will say it again. The buying power of Feeding America banks is great. They know best what the community needs and with money they can buy dairy and produce which they are always short on. It’s this simple.

donate money to food banks

The Bottom Line:

All in all this was a great experience to do with my teen. I learned a lot about what actually happens to that food collected for food banks. After my time in reclamation, I would discourage people from running food drives that reward kids for the ‘most cans or weight’ donated. I personally feel while people have amazing intentions with these types of drives, it leads to people sending in the less expensive cans of food that are on sale-not always the most nutritional. I would encourage you instead to encourage the goal to be the most money raised. Of course, help as best you can. I know a lot of couponers that are very good at gathering tons of food for very little money. My advice is meant more for the average family looking at ways to make the most of their donations and time.
For more reading here is another great post on the subject: Can the Cans

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